LETTER XXXVI.
Miss Howe, To Miss Clarissa Harlowe.
Thursday Morning (April 9.).
I have your three Letters. Never was there a creature more impatient on the most interesting uncertainty that I was, to know the event of the Interview between you and Solmes.
It behoves me to account to my dear friend, in her present unhappy situation, for every-thing that may have the least appearance of negligence or remissness on my part. I sent Robin in the morning early, in hopes of a deposit. He loitered about the place till near Ten to no purpose; and then came away; my Mother having given him a Letter to carry to Mr. Hunt's, which he was to deliver before Three, when only, in the day-time, that gentleman is at
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home; and to bring her back an Answer to it. Mr. Hunt's house, you know, lies wide from Harlowe-Place. Robin but just saved his time; and returned not till it was too late to send him again. I could only direct him to set out before day this morning; and, if he got any Letter, to ride as for his life to bring it to me.
I lay by myself: A most uneasy night I had thro' impatience; and being discomposed with it, lay longer than usual. Just as I was risen, in came Kitty, from Robin, with your three Letters. I was not a quarter dressed; and only slipt on my morning Sac; proceeding no further till I had read them all thro', long as they are: And yet I often stopped to rave aloud (tho' by myself) at the devilish people you have to deal with.
How my heart rises at them all! How poorly did they design to trick you into an encouragement of Solmes, from the extorted Interview!---I am very, very angry at your Aunt Hervey---To give up her own judgment so tamely!---And, not content to do so, to become such an active instrument in their hands!---But it is so like the world!---So like my Mother too!---Next to her own child, there is not any-body living she values so much as she does you:---Yet, it is---Why should we embroil ourselves, Nancy, with the affairs of other people?
Other people!---How I hate the poor words, where friendship is concerned, and where the protection to be given may be of so much consequence to a friend, and of so little detriment to one's self!
I am delighted with your spirit, however. I expected it not from you. Nor did They, I am sure. Nor would you, perhaps, have exerted it, if Lovelace's intelligence of Solme's Nursery-offices had not set you up. I wonder not that the wretch is said to love you the better for it. What an honour would it be to him to have such a Wife? And he can be even with
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you when you are so. He must indeed be a savage, as you say.---Yet is he less to blame for his perseverance, than those of your own family, whom most you reverence, for theirs.
It is well, as I have often said, that I have not such provocations and trials; I should perhaps long ago have taken your Cousin Dolly's advice---Yet dare I not to touch that key.---I shall always love the good girl for her tenderness to you.
I know not what to say to Lovelace; nor what to think of his promises, nor of his proposals to you. 'Tis certain that you are highly esteemed by all his family. The Ladies are persons of unblemished honour. My Lord M. is also (as Men and Peers go) a man of honour. I could tell what to advise any other person in the world to do but you. So much expected from you!---Such a shining light!---Your quitting your Father's house, and throwing yourself into the protection of a family, however honourable, that has a man in it, whose person, parts, declarations, and pretensions, will be thought to have engaged your warmest esteem;---Methinks I am rather for advising that you should get privately to London; and not to let either him, or any-body else but me, know where you are, till your Cousin Morden comes.
As to going to your Uncle's, that you must not do if you can help it. Nor must you have Solmes, that's certain: Not only because of his unworthiness in every respect, but because of the aversion you have so openly avowed to him; which every-body knows and talks of; as they do of your approbation of the other. For your reputation sake therefore, as well as to prevent mischief, you must either live single, or have Lovelace.
If you think of going to London, let me know; and I hope you will have time to allow me a further
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concert as to the manner of your getting away, and thither, and how to procure proper lodgings for you.
To obtain this time, you must palliate a little, and come into some seeming compromise, if you cannot do otherwise. Driven as you are driven, it will be strange if you are not obliged to part with a few of your admirable punctilio's.
You will observe from what I have written, that I have not succeeded with my Mother.
I am extremely mortified and disappointed. We have had very strong debates upon it. But, besides the narrow argument of embroiling ourselves with other peoples affairs, as above-mentioned, she will have it, that it is your duty to comply. She says, she was always of opinion that Daughters should implicitly submit to the will of their Parents in the great article of Marriage; and that she governed herself accordingly in marrying my Father; who at first was more the choice of her Parents than her own.
This is what she argues in behalf of her favourite Hickman, as well as for Solmes in your case.
I must not doubt, but my Mother always governed herself by this principle---because she says she did. I have likewise another reason to believe it; which you shall have, tho' it may not become me to give it---That they did not live so very happily together, as one would hope people might do who married preferring each other at the time, to the rest of the world.
Somebody shall fare never the better for this double-meant policy of my Mother, I do assure you. Such a retrospection in her arguments to him, and to his address, it is but fit that he should suffer for my mortification in failing to carry a point upon which I had set my whole heart.
Think, my dear, if in any way I can serve you. If you allow of it, I protest I will go off privately with you, and we will live and die together. Think of it. Improve upon my hint, and command me.
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A little interruption.---What is breakfast to the subject I am upon?
London, I am told, is the best hiding-place in the world. I have written nothing but what I will stand to at the word of command. Women love to engage in knight-errantry, now-and-then, as well as to encourage it in the men. But in your case, what I propose, will not seem to have any-thing of that nature in it. It will enable me to perform what is no more than a duty in serving and comforting a dear and worthy friend, who labours under undeserved oppression: And you will ennoble, as I may say, your Anna Howe, if you allow her to be your companion in affliction.
I will engage, my dear, we shall not be in town together one month, before we surmount all difficulties; and This without being beholden to any men-fellows for their protection.
I must repeat what I have often said, That the authors of your persecutions would not have presumed to set on foot their selfish schemes against you, had they not depended upon the gentleness of your spirit: Tho' now, having gone so far, and having engaged Old AUTHORITY in it [Chide me, if you will!] neither he nor they know how to recede.
When they find you out of their reach, and know that I am with you, you'll see how they'll pull in their odious horns.
I think, however, that you should have written to your Cousin Morden the moment they had begun to treat you disgracefully.
I shall be impatient to hear whether they will attempt to carry you to your Uncle's. I remember, that Lord M's dismissed Bailiff reported of Lovelace, that he had six or seven companions as bad as himself; and that the country was always glad when they left it (a) [Footnote a: 1Kb]. He actually has, as I hear, such a knot
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of them about him now. And, depend upon it, he will not suffer them quietly to carry you to your Uncle's: And whose must you be, if he succeeds in taking you from them?
I tremble for you but upon supposing what may be the consequence of a conflict upon this occasion. Lovelace owes some of them vengeance. This gives me a double concern, that my Mother should refuse her consent to the protection I had set my heart upon procuring for you.
My Mother will not breakfast without me. A quarrel has its conveniencies sometimes. Yet too much Love, I think, is as bad as too little.
We have just now had another pull. Upon my word, she is excessively---What shall I say?---unpersuadeable---I must let her off with that soft word.
Who was the old Greek, that said, He governed Athens; his Wife, him; and his Son, her?
It was not my Mother's fault [I am writing to you, you know] that she did not govern my Father. But I am but a Daughter!---Yet I thought I was not quite so powerless when I was set upon carrying a point, as I find myself to be.
Adieu, my dear!---Happier times must come---And that quickly too.---The strings cannot long continue thus overstrained. They must break, or be relaxed. In either way, the Certainty must be preferable to the Suspense.
One word more!
I think in my conscience you must take one of these two alternatives; either To consent to let us go to London together privately [In which case, I will procure a vehicle, and meet you at your appointment at the Stile to which Lovelace proposes to bring his Uncle's chariot]; or, To put yourself into the protection of Lord M. and the Ladies of his family.
You have another, indeed; and that is, if you are
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absolutely resolved against Solmes, to meet and marry Lovelace directly.
Which-soever of these you make choice of, you will have This plea, both to yourself, and to the world, that you are concluded by the same uniform principle that has governed your whole conduct, ever since the contention between Lovelace and your Brother has been on foot: That is to say, that you have chosen a lesser evil, in hope to prevent a greater.
Adieu! and Heaven direct for the best my beloved creature, prays
Her
Anna Howe.